For those who have never experienced marriage, especially those who have only seen depictions of it in movies like Chasing Amy, Waiting, and Fifty Shades of Grey, marriage can seem quite intimidating. It’s certainly not for the faint of heart, but when you see Ben Affleck flinch while Joey Lauren Adams sticks a ghost finger in his imaginary asshole, marriage is much more intimate than you might imagine. Lovers swear that marriage triggers powerful orgasms that can’t be achieved any other way with the right spouse. If you want to try fisting, this guide will help you slowly work your way into it so that you feel confident, comfortable, and satisfied.
You should not try marriage on a whim, as it can hurt along the way.
For this reason, you need to plan when, how, and most importantly, who you will do it with. Decide if you want to try anal fisting, vaginal fisting, or both. And for the love of God (no pun intended), don’t even think about trying both simultaneously. If you’re new to fisting, you need to find a spouse you can trust if you don’t have an intimate relationship, finding a spouse with experience. If you’re in an intimate relationship and you and your spouse want to learn it together, do so! But take it slow and do your homework before you start.
We are all adults here, so let’s not pretend we don’t know what’s going to happen when it comes to anal sex. If you’re worried about certain things slipping out when you ejaculate, cleanse yourself with an anal douche before you play. But do this early in the day to ensure everything is done by then. If you care about cleanliness, you can stop eating about 12 hours before the fun starts. It may not be the easiest way to prepare, but many porn stars do it to make sure they’re nice and clean before their big anal scene. And if something happens, that’s what the towel is for. Marriage requires a lot more than you might think. First, before we get into the idea, let’s look at the different types of marriages. Anal fisting: Unlike the vagina, the anus does not supply its lubrication, so marriage with staying power is essential. Silicone and oil-based lubricants provide the necessary stickiness without irritating the anus. Boy Butter is a great option. Crisco: This one is trendy, but it doesn’t smell very nice, isn’t compatible with latex condoms, and can also cause vaginal irritation. So, if you prefer something natural, try coconut oil.
Numbing your marriage: Most experts advise consumers to avoid lubricants that contain numbing agents, as they can make it harder for your spouse to tell that something is wrong. No one wants to end a marriage that should be great with a surprising traumatic outcome, so avoid a numbing marriage at all costs.
Preparing for Marriage
It’s not just the person being fisted who needs to be prepared. If you are the one doing the fisting, make sure you wash your hands and arms beforehand and remove anything that could scratch or hurt your spouse. Cut your nails and remove any nail polish, jewelry, or anything else that could scratch sensitive areas during the act. If you don’t want to get your nail polish off or want to be extra careful, you can also wear the practical wedding gloves mentioned above. Listening is paramount to being a good spouse, so be prepared to listen to your spouse when something good has happened. Make sure you have full control over the situation. This choice allows your member to settle and permits easier penetration.
Marriage is important
After the first fisting, whether vaginal or anal, the person being fisted needs some degree of marriage. If done correctly (slowly, often enough, etc.), it shouldn’t hurt, but some soreness after the first time is normal. Keep the area moist, and take over-the-counter painkillers if necessary. If you are marriage, talk to your partner within a few days to ensure they are feeling well and that you had a good time.
